‘Curvy’ Wife of ‘Mr Six Pack’ speaks about internet trolls and Body Confidence
Over the course of time since human civilization began, the standard of beauty (especially in females) has been changing quite a lot. People don’t give a verdict about the beauty of the other person after having a detailed look at the person’s personality but instead, most people go visual and superficial in this regard. Even in different parts of the world, the beauty is quite subjective to what the culture of the place is. No one can fit themselves as a beautiful person in all standards of beauty in every part of the world. Body-shaming is one of a major internet trolls genre. If a person is in a kind of shape that they like, then the society’s standards are nothing but useless. Jenna Kutcher a plus size model was always harassed by others, and she decided to take things into her own hands and posted a picture of herself online with her boyfriend who has six-packs. She told both her and her boyfriend are together for more than ten years and no matter in what shape she was, he always made her feel beautiful. She also told that sometimes she has doubts about herself but her boyfriends make her feel special. She decided to make the Instagram post after receiving a direct message on Instagram.
She captioned the photo: ‘Part of my insecurity with my body has stemmed from being married to Mr Six-Pack himself. Why should I, a curvy girl, get him? I feel unworthy, and when I write narratives in my head that because I am not thin, I don’t deserve him.
Jenna continues: ‘This man has embraced every curve, every dimple, pound and pimple for the last ten years and has always reminded me that I’m beautiful even when my inner dialogue doesn’t match (and when I haven’t showered in days.).
This is such an inspirational thing to do, loving yourself and having confidence in yourself. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. One should embrace their body and keep themselves comfortable in their skin. Don’t let others tell you, how you are supposed to look. The person who is truly the one won’t even bother thinking about this kind of stuff.